Do you think it’s a full feed bin? Or a lush paddock or a field full of long grass? Is it a pocket full of carrots or a piece of apple?
Sure he likes all those things. He also likes plenty of space to move around for vigorous expression of joyfulness and good health and feet that are comfortable and good companions and a whole host of other things.
But for horses living in our world, the relationship with us is the one thing that has the capacity to bring them happiness – or to bring that happiness undone. Whatever reservations there are within our relationship, adversely affect both us and our horses.
And reservations with each other’s relationship can be coming from stuff that happened to them before we even met each other (although in my case a lot of my horse’s reservations were coming from our time together!)
I made a commitment a while ago now, to notice and “fix” any areas in my horse relationship that were getting in the road of our happiness together and our enjoyment of each other.
I wrote a book about those insights and ways of being with our horses and laid down some simple, practical lessons on an audio track that will take you step by step to how you can get the awesome co-operation from your horse that comes from getting rid of all that old crappy “stuff”.
Zen Connection with Horses is a book and audio lesson set that takes you step by step through a very unusual process of deeply connecting with your horse, understanding that connection and then using that connection to bring happiness to you and your horse.
It’s simple and practical and you can apply the lessons and way of being with your horse to any way of riding or horsemanship.
And, do you know, when your horse is happy – it rubs off on you!
What can you do today that brings happiness to your horse? Cheers, Jenny Pearce Click here for the bookshop.